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As inheritances fall, a boom in disputes
Seattle Post Intelligencer ^
| November 30, 2002
| HOPE YEN
Posted on 11/30/2002 1:34:31 AM PST by sarcasm
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posted on
11/30/2002 1:34:31 AM PST
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sarcasm
To: sarcasm
I have noted a trend in the WWII group. They don't have wills (I guess they figure the State can best decide where their assets belong); they love Medicare even when they can afford to pay, and they think if they made it to 80 that they can live forever. (Not that there's anything wrong with that).
To: widowithfoursons
I don't think not having a will is anymore prevelant among the WWII age group than any other group. They love Medicare even when they can afford to pay because they paid for Medicare through their payroll taxes. What do you mean if they live to 80 they think they can live forever?
To: sarcasm
Remember that one - major - reason that boomers have so little equity compared to their parents at the same age is that taxes are so high in order to give even the most-affluent senior every conceivable program. Today's seniors didn't have to pay so much taxes for programs for affluent ancestors!
To: glc1173@aol.com
Thank You for pointing that out. Where my husband works, Granny drives up in her Mercedes, stomps up to the desk, and demands her mediscare co-pay for her Prozac, even though her information sheet lists her yearly income at 6 figures, and she has never worked a day in her life. Many of the "greatest generation" have become the "you owe me" generation. My parents would be shamed if they were here to see this (and no, my siblings and I never expected them to leave us money). What ever happened to making your own money and your own way?
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posted on
11/30/2002 5:00:02 AM PST
by
Texan5
To: sarcasm
This looks like just another racket for attorneys to exploit for money, especially if the prohibitions against frivolous lawsuits get stiffer. Which I hope they will...
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posted on
11/30/2002 5:03:15 AM PST
by
Texan5
To: Clemenza; PARodrig; rmlew; firebrand; Yehuda; RaceBannon
These people are morons, as are most people that believe that the good times will last forever. I bet they don't even carry a spare tire in the trunk of their car thinking they will never get a flat tire.
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posted on
11/30/2002 5:10:39 AM PST
by
Cacique
To: Cacique
They keep those little (useless) donut things in the spare compartment, and when they have a flat, try to use them to drive home in the next state, not having read the fine print that tells you the damn thing is only good for 50 miles or so. Then they call a road service when the donut goes up in smoke, and put a real spare tire and $3000,00 worth of towing charges on their (maxed) Mastercard.....
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posted on
11/30/2002 5:38:20 AM PST
by
Texan5
To: Texan5
What ever happened to making your own money and your own way? FDR changed that idea in the 30's, and it has only gotten worse since then.
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posted on
11/30/2002 5:51:05 AM PST
by
leadpenny
To: glc1173@aol.com
Remember that one - major - reason that boomers have so little equity compared to their parents at the same age is that taxes are so high in order to give even the most-affluent senior every conceivable program. Today's seniors didn't have to pay so much taxes for programs for affluent ancestors!Disagree with you. Seniors didn't buy on credit; didn't pay a lot of interest. Paid cash for things other than house, car.
Boomers use plastic for everything and pay as much to banks each month as to Uncle Sam.
Boomers suffer from "instant gratification" and aren't even aware of what they can afford from what they should live without.
Grannies knew the difference; did more with less, IMO.
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posted on
11/30/2002 5:52:46 AM PST
by
lonestar
To: sarcasm
Inheritance fights, perhaps second only to divorce & custody fights, are the nastiest form of litigation. People really become over-involved in squeezing the last drop out of the old rind. In many instances, if they spent as much effort in taking care of grandma as they do in squabbling over the inheritance, grandma would still be with us.
Someone I know now has been keeping up an inheritance fight over her mother's estate for six years since her mother's death. She is entitled by the will to an equal share with her two sisters - uncommonly generous of mom considering that this one hardly visited while the two sisters shared the caretaking duties for a decade. The two sisters, being in the same state with mom's will and assets, are the executors. They pretty much offered a quick three-way division, but my friend is obsessed with the notion that the sisters have padded their expense accounts or something -- if they did, it couldn't be by much, they're charging a tenth of what a bank or lawyer would charge. My friend, against everyone's advice, is spending 100% of her money to fuss over 5% of her mom's money, and, while this prolonged litigation is going on, the entire estate is boiling away (because the sisters are legally entitled to pay their legal fees out of the estate) so even if she wins, my friend's one-third will be much less than what she was originally offered. I should add that by carrying on (and on and on) this lawsuit, my friend is no longer being spoken to by ANY of her relatives.
One of the reasons that inheritances are now so unreliable (if, indeed, they were ever reliable) is that people are now living so much longer after retirement. They live long enough to use up their savings. They could live for years in a nursing home environment, and nursing homes charge the earth (and to qualify for a public subsidy for nursing home care, the elderly person must become pauperized), leaving very little to inherit. There is also the possibility that an aged parent might remarry, which would shift the majority of the inheritance to the spouse.
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posted on
11/30/2002 6:10:47 AM PST
by
DonQ
To: lonestar
I paid more this year in SS taxes than my father paid in the first 30 years of his SS taxes. I paid more in fed taxes than he paid in about the same perid of time. Sales taxes--he didn't pay for decades; user fees--he never heard of; likewise he never heard of state income taxes, etc., etc., etc.
Good for him, bad for me--oh, the first $10,000 a year for medical payments comes out of my pocket---his comes from the feds (whoops--me!).
To: ItisaReligionofPeace
They love Medicare even when they can afford to pay because they paid for Medicare through their payroll taxes.
Yup. Payed pennies, reaped dollars. A GREAT investment for them. But another government Ponzi scheme about to implode.
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posted on
11/30/2002 6:17:10 AM PST
by
Kozak
To: lonestar
Grannies knew the difference; did more with less, IMOFor their generation, there was a direct connection between what they had and what they spent, always putting some aside. My mom's generation grew up during the depression of the '30s. She had no desire to depend on others for survival.
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posted on
11/30/2002 6:24:41 AM PST
by
grania
To: DonQ
One of the reasons that inheritances are now so unreliable (if, indeed, they were ever reliable) is that people are now living so much longer after retirement. They live long enough to use up their savings.Good for them!! Better they spend the money on the world cruise they never took or a nice, safe car that will only be driven a few thousand miles a year then give it to the kids to spend on junk to fill their mini-mansions.
They could live for years in a nursing home environment, and nursing homes charge the earth (and to qualify for a public subsidy for nursing home care, the elderly person must become pauperized), leaving very little to inherit.
The solution here is simple. Some child could actually make a sacrifice, live with the elder folk, take care of their needs and take a fair montthly stipend to do that. Otherwise, let the nursing homes have the money.
There is also the possibility that an aged parent might remarry, which would shift the majority of the inheritance to the spouse
As far as that one goes, the kids should probably help plan the common law exchange of vows at the council on aging center, make it fancy, send them on a nice vacation, and make darn sure the wills are in order. No need to have more than one set of siblings fighting over the silverware.
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posted on
11/30/2002 6:34:53 AM PST
by
grania
To: Cacique
The way things are set up right now, most people will never see an inheritance, as the nursing-home and assisted-living industry will grab it all in the parents' last years. These wonderful helping corporations might as well have a mask and a gun.
To: sarcasm
When Kotzer asked what the husband did for a living, they explained he was a "waiter." "The wife said, 'He's waiting for the inheritance,' " said Kotzer, of Thornhill, Ontario. "A lot of boomers are depending on what their parents have saved all these years to pay off their debts and loans. Also voted straight Democrat in the last election. I have zero sympathy for such people.
To: leadpenny
FDR changed that idea in the 30's, and it has only gotten worse since then.Bingo!
To: glc1173@aol.com
Remember that one - major - reason that boomers have so little equity compared to their parents at the same age is that taxes are so high in order to give even the most-affluent senior every conceivable program. Today's seniors didn't have to pay so much taxes for programs for affluent ancestors! 4 posted on 11/30/2002 4:30 AM PST by glc1173@aol.com [ Post Reply
Absolutely true! Some of these people bought their houses for around $5,000 back then. Added a few improvements throughout the decades, now same house would cost $100,000
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posted on
11/30/2002 9:05:52 AM PST
by
timestax
To: Kozak
Whether they paid pennies or not, the government took money out of their paychecks for years...they are entitled to have it returned from the program that the money was supposedly going to.
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