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Pastor (A),

I must confess, I find it extremely uncomfortable when you speak in a way that comes across to me as guilt flinging about not getting the website done.

I noted or should have, that I have limited time. That I'm willing to do what I can in my available time for free. It seems that's not an acceptable contingency for you. So, I suggest you hire one of the following people to finish the website. It's OK. I have plenty on my plate and I understand you want the website up. I should have warned you more clearly about how long it takes. And I should have registered more consciously how big a task it is.

In any case, I need to clear the relationship about it. I can only do what I can do. And that will be come less instead of more as I cope with a new job; new school program and a new marriage.

I'm really uncomfortable feeling pressure about the website when I'm donating time that's increasingly precious to priceless for me. In fact, I'm not willing to receive any more pressure about it. So, perhaps you need to pray about what your priorities are. If you are going to feel anxious or unsatisfied if the website is not fininshed quickly, then I'm not the person to continue on the hook for the project.

etc. etc. etc.

Hope all this role playing sort of thought experiment is useful for you.

Blessings,