I'm right THERE with that! In So. Cal. we are LOUSEY with KITTENS, oven and otherwise. It's base stupid.
NOW ... motoring on to be FLAMEworthy. ;)
BLESS YOUR HEART
A Southerner can get away with the most awful insult, just as long as it is accompanied by the words "Bless her heart" or "Bless his heart." As in, " If they put his brain on the head of a pin, it'd roll around like a BB on a six-lane highway, bless his heart." Or, "She's so bucktoothed, she could eat an apple through a picket fence, bless her heart."
It ain't mine though I concur. It's attributed to Celia Rivenbark ... something that was forwarded and pertinent.