Having read your responses it’s obvious you will see only what your want to see. Further you then make comments that have nothing to do with what’s being discussed, (which this we know well and seen often), as another ploy to continue in the state of denial.
Quix.....when one is in such a deep state of denial, even after facts, evidence etc. has been presented. How then do they finally accept the evidence.....such as with an alcoholic. Some do finally see....so what is it that ultimately breaks thru the denial?
imho,
Either such a person hits absolute rock bottom in utter brokeness and despair—abandoning ALL their personal opinions—even about Scripture and theology—sufficiently to be attentive to WHATEVER HOLY SPIRIT AND HOLY SPIRIT ALONE has to say
or
somehow, Holy Spirit in His sovereign power chooses to break through their defenses, perhaps due to prayers of others who love the person.