She does it with almost everyone. It's just her style. Check out her posting history. A-G is anything but patronizing.
Your other observations are most likely projecting. Looks like you're reading way more into what she wrote than is warranted.
Unwind a little.
Dear CTrent1564, my reply was brief but appreciative because the issue had already been raised, discussed and answered. There is no need to debate it further.
metmom:
Well, I haven’t had the pleasure of Alamo pinging me before. If that is here style so be it.