If you’re saying what I think you’re saying that is not what He was talking about in John 2 at the wedding. The “my hour has not come” meant the hour He would reveal His true power.
Disagree. John clearly says the Wedding at Cana was one of Jesus’ planned, important miracles. “John 2: 11 This, the first of his miraculous signs, Jesus performed at Cana in Galilee. He thus revealed his glory, and his disciples put their faith in him. “