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How to Lose Your Joy
Grace To You.org ^ | 1993 | John MacArthur, Grace Community Church

Posted on 02/17/2018 3:22:36 PM PST by metmom

"I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am" (Phil. 4:11).

Discontent and ingratitude will steal your joy.

True joy is God's gift to every believer, yet many Christians seem to lack it. How can that be? Did God fail them? No. As with peace, assurance, and other benefits of salvation, joy can be forfeited for many reasons: willful sin, prayerlessness, fear, self-centeredness, focusing on circumstances, and lack of forgiveness are the main culprits.

Two of the most common joy-thieves are dissatisfaction and ingratitude. Both are by-products of the health, wealth, and prosperity mentality of our day. It has produced a generation of Christians who are more dissatisfied than ever because their demands and expectations are higher than ever. They've lost their perspective on God's sovereignty and have therefore lost the ability to give thanks in all things.

In marked contrast, when Jesus taught about contentment and anxiety (Matt. 6:25-34), He spoke of food and clothing—the basic necessities of life. But preferences, not necessities, are the issue with us. We're into style, personal appearance, job satisfaction, earning power, bigger homes, and newer cars. In the name of greater faith we even demand that God supply more miracles, more wealth, and more power.

Amid all that, Paul's words sound a refreshing note of assurance and rebuke: "I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am" (Phil. 4:11). He made no demands on God but simply trusted in His gracious provision. Whether he received little or much made no difference to him. In either case he was satisfied and thankful.

Don't be victimized by the spirit of our age. See God's blessings for what they are and continually praise Him for His goodness. In doing so you will guard your heart from dissatisfaction and ingratitude. More important, you will bring joy to the One who is worthy of all praise.

Suggestions for Prayer

Pray that the Holy Spirit will produce in you a joy and contentment that transcends your circumstances. Make it a daily practice to thank God for specific blessings and trials, knowing that He uses both to perfect His will in you.

For Further Study

Read 1 Kings 18:1—19:8.

How did Elijah deal with the false prophets of Baal? How did he deal with Jezebel's threat? What caused Elijah's shift from a spiritual high to a spiritual low?


TOPICS: Evangelical Christian; General Discusssion; Theology; Worship
KEYWORDS: gty

1 posted on 02/17/2018 3:22:36 PM PST by metmom
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Studying God’s Word ping


2 posted on 02/17/2018 3:22:58 PM PST by metmom ( ...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith..)
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To: metmom

Bump .... the One who created humans sure does have a handle on what makes them tick.


3 posted on 02/17/2018 3:25:00 PM PST by Cboldt
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To: metmom

Someone once told me that the foundation of faith is gratitude. The house of our faith is crowned with joy in the LORD.


4 posted on 02/17/2018 3:52:21 PM PST by Irish Queen (Not all cults are religious)
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To: metmom

Oh Lord forgive us, when we doubt.


5 posted on 02/17/2018 3:55:16 PM PST by Neoliberalnot (MSM is our greatest threat. Disney, Comcast, Google Hollywood, NYTimes, WaPo, CNN, NBC, CBS, ABC ...)
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To: Irish Queen

I’ve always thought that gratitude is the most practically useful emotion that humans can experience/exercise.


6 posted on 02/17/2018 3:58:24 PM PST by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: metmom

I want to go to my death full of gratitude.


7 posted on 02/17/2018 4:14:54 PM PST by kanawa (Trump Loves a Great Deal)
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To: metmom

Thank you, this is very nice.


8 posted on 02/17/2018 4:38:44 PM PST by GnuThere
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