Soccer it is a great sport, ideal for youths. To the OP, the reason your son’s team is in last place is that the league’s other coaches understand that trying to win is important. I have coached in a dozen leagues and have seen as many “win at all costs” coaches (e.g., those who would drive a 9 year old kid from the sport so he didn’t have to give him minutes) than I have “winning doesn’t matter” coaches. Fortunately, both extremes are relatively rare and there are some tremendous coaches out there. I think the experiment proved something different than the conclusion you have reached: If you don’t coach your kid, you get the luck of the draw.