Are you actually saying that when you were growing up, you were unsure as to whether or not you were sexually attracted to men or women, and you had to mentally choose to only be attracted to women?
What kind of reverse psychology is that? If homosexuality is a choice then we all must be latent homosexuals?
No. What I'm saying is that, like becoming a doctor or a rapist, homosexuals choose the lifestyle they live.
We've all been raised in a world where heterosexuality is the norm and the accepted. This makes the choice much easier for most of us. Others contemplate the situation deeper. But make no mistake about it, we all choose to either be or not be homosexual.
Even if there is a genetic predisposition to homosexuality (a theory that has been debunked by most all but the most livid to prove it) one can look around and realize that homosexuality is religiously offensive, socially destructive and naturally irrelevant then choose to be heterosexual.
Besides, most homosexuals I know are more accurately bisexual, a purely hedonistic choice.