Hedda Nussbaum, today, age 61 PUBLIC LIVES For a Notorious Victim, Some Things Never Heal By COREY KILGANNON Published: February 10, 2004 White Plains HEDDA NUSSBAUM opened her office door and, slightly hunched and still limping from the nightmare she once lived through, led a visitor to a conference room at My Sisters' Place here, a center for battered women, where she now works as a paralegal. "I'm still not happy with my nose - I had a really nice nose," she said at one point. "But I can't go through any more surgeries." That would be the five cosmetic...