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I am a sexual assault survivor. No, we should not ‘believe all women’
The Blaze ^ | September 20, 2018 | Saraa Gonzales

Posted on 09/20/2018 3:04:21 PM PDT by TBP

“Believe all women.”

In the last week, this pious new mantra of the left has been used to completely dismantle an honorable man’s reputation. It’s incredible really, the idea that, in the year 2018, your biological makeup entitles you to be believed even in the absence of one shred of evidence.

Set aside for a moment that the notion is completely contrary to the American idea that we are all innocent until proven guilty, the suggestion that we should “believe all women” is also dangerously irresponsible.

We are told by the left that there are no differences between men and women, that gender is fluid, that women are as capable as men in all circumstances, even though science proves that to be completely untrue. And yet, one of the only ways women are, in fact, equal to men is that we are not infallible. We are not inherently virtuous. We are not morally superior. We can remember things incorrectly, or not remember things at all.

Some women lie, cheat, and steal just as some men do. Some women are manipulative. In fact, some of the most conniving people I’ve known throughout my life have been women (this is admittedly entirely anecdotal). But the idea that we should believe all women simply because they have a different set of genitalia is utterly ridiculous.

Judge Brett Kavanaugh and his family have gracefully endured insults, vulgarities, deceptively edited smear campaigns, and flat out character assassinations since July, when President Donald Trump first announced he was nominating Kavanaugh to the Supreme Court to replace the retiring Justice Anthony Kennedy. But the left’s latest attempt to destroy him for an unfounded sexual assault accusation is a new low.

I am a sexual assault survivor. I was assaulted multiple times during childhood between the ages of 12 to 16, over two decades ago. I can’t say with 100 percent certainty that Dr. Christine Blasey Ford is purposely asserting the allegations against Kavanaugh to intentionally thwart his nomination, none of us should jump to that assumption. What I can say is that I have never forgotten the details of being assaulted. Never would I have to say, “I can’t recall how I ended up at the party,” or “I don’t remember what happened after the assault.” I don’t have the luxury of forgetting those details; they’re etched in my mind forever.

No amount of “investigating” by the Senate Judiciary Committee will yield any kind of proof-positive results, as Democrat leaders certainly already know. The Ford-Kavanaugh incident allegedly happened over three decades ago. A friend of Ford claims she remembers hearing about an “incident” all those years ago, yet backed off those claims a mere 24 hours later. Another friend Ford named as a “witness” claims he has no knowledge of the incident and was never at a party as Ford described. A mutual friend at the time, Mark Judge, categorically denies that it happened. These are the convoluted stories we would expect 30-something years later.

All of this is enough to cast reasonable doubt on her accusations. Reasonable doubt: that standard to which we are supposed to judge someone’s guilt or innocence in this country. No, we shouldn’t blindly “believe all women.” On the contrary, if women (or men, for that matter) accuse someone of something so vile that it would immediately ruin their reputation, we have to expect clear and convincing evidence before we convict anyone in the court of public opinion and permanently tarnish their reputation.

To believe all women is to minimize the experience of real survivors. Sexual assault survivors withstand a lifetime of far-reaching effects, but so do the falsely accused. In either situation, one person’s life is negatively impacted forever. It is imperative that political games don’t allow us to lose sight of that.


TOPICS: Miscellaneous; Society
KEYWORDS: believeallwomen; blaseyford; ford; sexualabuse
Real survivors remember the details.
1 posted on 09/20/2018 3:04:22 PM PDT by TBP
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To: TBP

Details:

2012-Group groping by 4 boys from ELITE schools

2017- Groping by Gorsuch?
2018-Groping by Kavanaugh?

Final story- Groping by TWO Supreme Court Justices while POTUS & V-POTUS watched = 4 guys from ELITE schools


2 posted on 09/20/2018 3:17:51 PM PDT by Beautiful_Gracious_Skies
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To: TBP
The question for those who claim we should "Believe all women":

"Even Juanita Broaddrick and Kathleen Willey?".

3 posted on 09/20/2018 3:18:42 PM PDT by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: DuncanWaring

The question for those who claim we should “Believe all women”:

Only if they are libs with an agenda


4 posted on 09/20/2018 3:20:27 PM PDT by Bell Bouy II
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To: TBP

That’s what I think too. That is a very tight group that have wealthy parents ( that Ford didn’t trust enough to tell) and you would remember who took you, who took you home, what house with a pool you went to.


5 posted on 09/20/2018 3:21:01 PM PDT by McGavin999 ("The press is impotent when it abandons itself to falsehood."Thomas Jeffersons)
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To: TBP

Here’s an idea - Judge Kavanaugh should announce he’s now a transgender woman, and since he’s now a woman, he must be believed when he says “Never happened”.


6 posted on 09/20/2018 3:21:14 PM PDT by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: TBP

>>Real survivors remember the details.<<

Fake ones remember the Benjamins.

This chick was paid BIG TIME.

And if the eGOP lets them get away with this it means no one in ANY POSITION will ever be “clean” again.

b/c if the dems can do this with a good guy, hitting a liberal will be easy. Even if it is a chick.


7 posted on 09/20/2018 3:29:28 PM PDT by freedumb2003 (As always IMHO)
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To: freedumb2003

https://www.gofundme.com/help-christine-blasey-ford


8 posted on 09/20/2018 3:35:04 PM PDT by TBP (Progressives lack compassion and tolerance. Their self-aggrandizement is all that matters.)
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To: DuncanWaring

“Even Juanita Broaddrick and Kathleen Willey?.”

Yes, ESPECIALLY those two women. However, since it was a Democrat who assaulted them . . .


9 posted on 09/20/2018 3:38:32 PM PDT by Old Grumpy ( Monkey, monkey, monkey. There. Now I'm a full-blown racist!)
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To: McGavin999

She says the room was locked, but she somehow escaped into a “hallway bathroom”, exited out the window (remember, they’re on the second floor) and “went home.”

That would imply that she walked or ran home, meaning the house where the party was would be in Potomac, near her house. I have no idea why she can’t remember that, if there is any truth to her account.


10 posted on 09/20/2018 3:40:27 PM PDT by TBP (Progressives lack compassion and tolerance. Their self-aggrandizement is all that matters.)
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To: TBP

A handy list of “believe the victim” cases where “the victim” was wrong
https://shetterly.blogspot.com/2018/03/a-handy-list-of-believe-victim-cases.html


11 posted on 09/20/2018 3:52:30 PM PDT by tbw2
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To: DuncanWaring

What about DNC Keith Ellison’s ladyfriend?


12 posted on 09/20/2018 4:06:16 PM PDT by a fool in paradise
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To: DuncanWaring

How about Karen Monahan, who has a video of Deputy Chair of the DNC, Keith Elison, beating the crap out of her, contemporaneous text messages detailing the abuse, and her son as a witness.


13 posted on 09/20/2018 4:10:19 PM PDT by TheThirdRuffian (Orange is the new brown)
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To: DuncanWaring

That would be one way to deal with it. Democrats throughout the land would be duty bound to support him/her/it.


14 posted on 09/20/2018 4:21:05 PM PDT by etcb
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To: a fool in paradise; TheThirdRuffian

Them too.


15 posted on 09/20/2018 4:39:59 PM PDT by DuncanWaring (The Lord uses the good ones; the bad ones use the Lord.)
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To: TBP
In fact, some of the most conniving people I’ve known throughout my life have been women (this is admittedly entirely anecdotal) - I worked with a psychologist who once observed that when men go crazy, they just go crazy, but when women go crazy they really go craaazzzyy - she was a woman by the way.....
16 posted on 09/20/2018 4:43:06 PM PDT by Intolerant in NJ
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Sexual assault: only OK when Democrats do it.

The Kennedy-Dodd "Waitress Sandwich"

17 posted on 09/20/2018 6:24:38 PM PDT by Albion Wilde (Ain't no reaching across the aisle in Hell.)
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To: TBP
Bingo. Real survivors remember EVERY detail, down to the most minute one.

My now ex-wife is a sexual abuse survivor - she remembers every time she was assaulted and physically forced to have sex by one of her family members, down to the day, time, place, and the most minute details including what her abuser was wearing.

Kavanaugh's accuser is a f***ing liar. The question really is: WHO'S PAYING HER TO DO THIS?

18 posted on 09/20/2018 6:29:17 PM PDT by usconservative (When The Ballot Box No Longer Counts, The Ammunition Box Does. (What's In Your Ammo Box?))
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To: TBP

If we “believe ALL women”, what happens when 1 woman testifies opposite of another woman?


19 posted on 09/20/2018 8:20:02 PM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue./Federal-run medical care is as good as state-run DMVs.)
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