[mjp]

An unpleasant experience can perform a vital function. It can lead to action tendencies, action implications, and motivational power that can lead to better health in the long run.

[Secret Agent Man]

Some people need a more drastic wake-up call. This is exactly why when we all at some point, have asked God, why did I have to learn this way? Not everyone learns stuff the same way. Some people get it just reading it. some need to hear it from someone they have a degree of trust in. some need to be hit in thehead with a brick to get it.