[Falconspeed]

I need advice and protection and all suggestions will be most welcome. Here are four examples.


231220 3:14 pm. A stalker followed me to the Shell station, hastily backed into a parking space, and watched while I was getting gas.


240130 2:59 pm. Stalker who followed me to Coffee Bean and Tea. He sat in his car staring at me and my mother for thirty minutes while we were having coffee in our car.


2400130 5:49 pm. A stalker followed me to my mother’s apartment and parked where I always park. She has parked there ten other times.


240131 7:48 pm. Two Hispanic lady security guards at my gated community regularly stalk and follow me while I ride my bicycle around campus. My guess is that a lady in the security truck is the same lady in the white Toyota above.

I feel alarmed and my friend told me to get a ccw license. The stalking has happened over a hundred times for over a year. Here are two Bible quotes. "They swarmed around me like bees, but in the name of the LORD I cut them down" (Psalm 118: 12). I am always praying to the Lord and I always need Him. "The new arrivals who lives with you in the land will ascend over you" (Deuteronomy 28: 43). Some law authorities I have called are "new arrivals" and do not help which is exposes me to danger and encourages the stalking. I feel like I need a witness protection program. What did I do wrong? My guess is that it is demonic and some people with demons from past bad actions are desperate and emotionally stalk rather than reasonably pray.

[exnavy]

Get out of California.

[Skwor]

Talk to members in your Church and see if any can perhaps check up in you, make a showing maybe, hanging out at different times for a while.

It makes no sense someone is randomly stalking you, and if such is true consider moving.I suspect a ccw in Ca would take forever and honestly if you do not know and have not practiced with a firearm you may get yourself on more trouble than avoid it.

Owning a firearm means learning to be proficient with one to use it properly and that takes practice.

[Vigilanteman]

So your stalkers are:

1. An unknown gender in photo #1?
   
2. A she is pictures 2 and 3? Or am I wrongly assuming the same person because it looks like the same car?
   
3. Two Hispanic lady security guards in picture 4?

   Do you have any idea what their motive might be?

[Robert DeLong]

Do you know this stalker? Does the stalker have multiple vehicles, or are there more stalkers than just 1?

[TexasGator]

” A stalker followed me to my mother’s apartment and parked where I always park.”

If they followed you how could they park where you parked?

[CTyank]

These folks seem to be pretty sophisticated. 3 Different vehicles and even the security guards from the community where you live.

I’d suggest starting with your pastor. Review these events with him and ask what he suggests.

[ryderann]

Are you pregnant? Are they anticipating when they can get your baby?

When they’re following you in your car, let them see you pull into a police station and entering the building.

Have you reported them to you building manager?

[Jeff Chandler]

1.) Acquire a firearm and complete proper training and practice. Since you live in California, keep it in your home.

2.) Acquire legal self defense items: stun gun, pepper spray, etc. Keep a Maglite in your car.

3.) Document the stalking: photos, license plates, etc. and report it to the police.

4.) I would directly confront the stalker while he/she’s stalking me (while videotaping), but I cannot recommend that to anyone else because of the physical and legal danger involved.

[Carriage Hill]

Get your CCW permit, firearm, practice and carry.
Better to have it, and not need it, than to need it and not have it.

Also, document (as you’re doing w/ pics) vehicles and people with pics, get faces if you can, security co name from truck, make multiple copies for 2 friends to hold in sealed lg manila envelopes, to be opened in case of any event you’re involved with.

[EEGator]

You are mentally ill and need professional help.

[Round Earther]

Are they swapping the cars, or do they buy a vehicle for each separate mission?

[b4me]

great you are already keeping dialogue with God about it. Ask HIM what it’s about and what more He would want you to do.

Mean time I would continue not document, plates, descriptions of people, etc it all may come in handy.

Can police be of any assistance? Maybe you can file notes about odd situations? again may not help immediately but at least each time you file it lends to greater substance of police knowing what nis going and maybe then they can help?

prayers for you, it can be mighty unsettling going thru such, but as you are already stick with The Lord.

[Persevero]

Gently, I think you are suffering paranoia. It is not reasonable to believe that all these random people are after you. You are not a head of state or part of a cartel or a billionaire where anyone would have that level of interest.

I encourage you to seek good counsel from 2-3 local Bible believing pastors and seek prayer and personal support and reassurance. Find a good man or two who will meet regularly. . I encourage you to pray through the psalms
Out loud, read your Bible, and pray especially asking the Lord to help you see what is a true threat and what is not. Sing praises. Attend the public worship.

Everything is going to be ok. This world is a dangerous place but it is not permanent.

Find assurance of salvation and things will get better. God is stronger than any enemy.

[Berlin_Freeper]

Try talking to the lady security guards about security stuff and see what they say.

[conservativeimage]

I had a pastor who use to say, “When I enter a room the devil leaves.” I’d say with security camera backing you up, when ever you see something out of the ordinary, go explore and investigate it with the kind of curiosity a friendly dog would have. Engage Cesar Millan dog whisperer “calm, assertive” frame of mind and confront suspicious characters with a friendly outgoing manner. Conversationally engage with them and tell them what Christ has done for you and invite them to church. Praise God and laugh in front of them. They will have an exorcism right there or your energy will drive them away. Go from fear mentality to care free faith.

[CivilWarBrewing]

Get ALL of the license plate numbers, OF COURSE.

Do you know a cop or anyone who does? Give the plate numbers to said cop and see if he or she is willing to 'run them' for you and look for connections, associations and/or criminal records.

[Falconspeed]

Thank you. Get out of CA. Yes, good option. Talk to members of Church. My local priest is not very helpful. I’ll talk to another priest. CCW takes eleven months. Motive: the main Hispanic lady stalker, age 40, started daily stalking last year, because she is desperate, uses me as a drug, and imagines being my wife in my house. No, I do not know the stalker. No previous interactions. Yes, multiple vehicles and very sophisticated. My friend said, How does she know where you live? Well, she knows when I take a shower, use the restroom at night, where I sit in church, the location of my mother’s apartment and the location of my uncle 100 miles away. It is full on stalking. I talked to Police Sergeant Jan 15. I shall talk to the Commander in a few days. I live in a gated community and talked to security 5x. The Chief is Hispanic and looks the other way. A junior Hispanic security guard and some Hispanic police know my main stalker and help her. Very twisted. Yes, police want license plates. Good idea: get truck number from fourth photo above. I have a therapist, since this is stressful. Many cars means many people involved. Stalking is a sport for some people and common. Yes, the Lord tells me to relax, He alone can fix it, He started this storm and will stop it, and wants me to watch and trust Him. Yes, Jeff Chandler has excellent advice. Persevero, I accept. However, this is serious stalking, since mentally I am healthy as you can see by my comments. Yes, trust friends help from my men’s prayer group.

[Cincinnatus.45-70]

1. You have to be ready for what they say about you. Being security guards, they will be able to say something, true or not to justify their actions.

2. Get a CCW license in California?? Depending on what the stalkers say, there is a good chance they will use the application against you. Self defense in California? Maybe somewhere in Northern Califorrnia, but Southern California? You might be better off to take whatever beating or other physical violation they plan for you, than getting something worse in prison after you defend yourself with a weapon.

3. Why are you living in California where you have no rights?

4. If you are serious, see a lawyer. Let the lawyer send letters asking why these people are doing what they are doing. Get better pictures before you go. Surely you or someone you know has a camera with a telephoto lens, for example. Get pictures of them and their tag numbers. Paying a lawyer now is better than paying one later if you get in trouble for doing something youurself.

[E. Pluribus Unum]

Why act like a frightened Karen?

Walk up to their vehicle with your cell phone camera recording them and ask them why they are stalking you.

If they take off get their license plate number and file a complaint with the police just to get it on record.

[MV=PY]

Can you come up with a reason that so many different people would spend time and energy stalking you?

If you think it’s about your money, you must have enough to hire a private detective to run it down.