HATE the cruise control on the Honda. It slows you WAY before it should, and sometimes when I am passed it slows the car even though the passing car is pulling away from me. It’s a 2019, maybe they’ve improved since. Fortunately, I mainly drive my 2009 Frontier (144k) and 2016 F150 (70k), both 4WD.
I have a 2019 Subaru, and it does give you the option to adjust your distance from the vehicle in front of you when in adaptive cruise control, and I think that setting also affects the slowdown when someone is in front, and the acceleration back to speed when there is space to close.
I think.