I had trouble with that too, but after watching it a few times, she was trying to draw a contrast with what Feminists told her men want, and what she discovered men really want.
It took me a couple of times watching it, but pretty sure that was it.
She is puzzled that guys are attracted to physically feminine (not muscular like guys are naturally muscular due to Testosterone) un-tattooed, un-pierced women, and this is a world view she never questioned before, apparently.
un-tattooed
Good luck !