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My Boyfriend's Cancer Battle was Ruining my Mental Health so I Left Him - Now I'm Running a Marathon in His Honour
Daily Mail ^ | 20 April 2023 | GWYNETH REES

Posted on 04/22/2023 10:07:40 AM PDT by nickcarraway

A woman running the London Marathon for her ex-boyfriend has admitted she left him because she couldn't cope with his cancer battle.

Danielle Epstein, 32, was buying a house with Jelle Fresen in London last year when he was diagnosed with a rare form of brain tumour at just 37.

He needed a complex operation, radiotherapy and chemotherapy, and had to learn to walk again.

While all this was going on physics teacher Danielle began having panic attacks and her mental health plummeted - so she ended their relationship.

She moved to Thailand but remained friends with Jelle - and is now running a marathon for a brain tumour charity.

She said she was still 'figuring out' her friendship with Jelle, adding: 'I felt like the most awful person, leaving somebody because they have cancer, but it was damaging my mental health and it wasn't helping Jelle.'

The couple were buying a house in Palmers Green, North London, when Jelle, who works as a Google software engineer, began vomiting and having dizzy spells.

After numerous consultations with GPs and ineffective treatments for an ear infection, the vomiting became much worse.

Jelle went for a private MRI scan using his health insurance with Google.

Doctors found a 'grade 4 medulloblastoma' tumour - normally a cancer that affects children - and he was booked in for surgery in September.

Danielle said: 'We were on a certain path to a certain future and within one day we knew it wasn't going to work out like that any more.

'I was so worried and devastated, I couldn't sleep or eat.

(Excerpt) Read more at dailymail.co.uk ...


TOPICS: Heated Discussion
KEYWORDS: cancer; memememe; shallow
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1 posted on 04/22/2023 10:07:40 AM PDT by nickcarraway
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He’s better off without her.


2 posted on 04/22/2023 10:09:54 AM PDT by fieldmarshaldj (America Owes Anita Bryant An Enormous Apology)
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Yikes. He's way better off without self-absorbed "thunder thighs."

I hope he finds a real woman that is worthy of him.

3 posted on 04/22/2023 10:12:01 AM PDT by SamAdams76 (5,016,040 Truth | 87,429,920 Twitter)
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I think Danielle Epstein is trying to break the record for hate mail.


4 posted on 04/22/2023 10:12:17 AM PDT by frogjerk (More people have died trusting the government than not trusting the government.)
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Sorry, not a profile in courage, rather a profile in guilt washing.


5 posted on 04/22/2023 10:13:08 AM PDT by Obadiah
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I sure in his hour of need and support he needs her to ditch him like a hole in the head. But he is definitely better off without the ‘fair weather friend’. Maybe some pretty nurse will catch his eye.


6 posted on 04/22/2023 10:14:27 AM PDT by PIF (They came for me and mine ... now its your turn)
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She’s not attractive but she certainly doesn’t have thunder thighs. She is however, a bitch.


7 posted on 04/22/2023 10:15:11 AM PDT by Right Brother
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She’s a PoS.


8 posted on 04/22/2023 10:15:38 AM PDT by fretzer
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I wonder if she’s George Lopez’ niece?


9 posted on 04/22/2023 10:16:15 AM PDT by nickcarraway
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She abandoned him and yet virtue whines to claim she's running a marathon for him.

I witness statements from mental health professionals claiming there are more male narcissists than female but that's not true. The mental health profession doesn't recognize how women manifest narcissism compared to men.

She showed her true colors and is virtue whining in a desperate attempt to stave off the reality that her only future partner will be some miserable simp who's willing to overlook her behavior. She's going to find simp, buy a cat, or die alone.

10 posted on 04/22/2023 10:16:57 AM PDT by T.B. Yoits
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Everything I could say regarding my feelings towards this woman is unprintable in this forum.


11 posted on 04/22/2023 10:17:41 AM PDT by Jhadur ("You are not ready for immortality.")
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mental health professionals claiming there are more male narcissists than female but that's not true.

This isn't a competition!

12 posted on 04/22/2023 10:18:19 AM PDT by nickcarraway
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He can do better. She’s kind of ugly.


13 posted on 04/22/2023 10:18:53 AM PDT by rexthecat
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Wow. How selfish. I hope and pray Jelle fully recovers and finds a compatible woman with a kind heart. One who understands what “in sickness and in health” means.


14 posted on 04/22/2023 10:19:52 AM PDT by Allegra
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At her age, with those looks and that personality, you are looking at a future cat lady.


15 posted on 04/22/2023 10:19:52 AM PDT by shoff (Vote Democrat it beats thinking!)
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"I felt like the most awful person, leaving somebody because they have cancer, but it was damaging my mental health"

Well that's the important thing.
16 posted on 04/22/2023 10:20:11 AM PDT by Telepathic Intruder
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I’d say that he dodged a bullet when she left him ...


17 posted on 04/22/2023 10:20:22 AM PDT by BlueLancer (Orchides Forum Trahite - Cordes Et Mentes Veniant)
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British women are some of the worst white women.


18 posted on 04/22/2023 10:20:47 AM PDT by joma89 (Buy weapons and ammo, folks, and have the will to use them.)
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A great part of it he story is how bad socialized medicine is. It is took private medical insurance to get the scan he needed.


19 posted on 04/22/2023 10:22:34 AM PDT by freefdny
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Talk about his good fortune losing that thick legged shrew


20 posted on 04/22/2023 10:22:42 AM PDT by wardaddy (Truth is treason in the Empire of lies)
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