My fury at the results of your story was quite interesting. I have had the same problem. In my case due to a double mastectomy, special interest has always been on my flat chest which they must run their hands over numerous times in order to “Know it is flat” and not a big elastic bandaid 9or so one told me!).
My solution? As soon as I am in line I unbutton my shirt completely and open it up. I take off my shoes and as I approach the little group I start to take off my jeans or skirt. I keep my face totally flat. I say nothing. I just disrobe.
You would be surprised how quickly my “inspection” is finished. I anyone were to treat me again as you have been treated I truly think I will scream “rape, rape, rape—get her off of me!” I don’t care if I go to jail. I will not allow it to go “unseen” again.
Wow, you are bold. And I thought I got the boob grope due to size. Bravo to you and I’m sorry they put you through that.
I have titanium screws in my ankles and lower leg from a badly broken ankle.
I can set off all sorts of alarms. When I fly i go in shorts and sandals so they can see my legs