You really allowed someone at an airport in the Bahamas to touch your “young child’s” genitalia without protesting and you still think that was fine? Wow.
Or were you just exaggerating, and this woman’s experience really was much worse than yours? I’ve been patted down before, but never has any of my genitalia been touched, much less the entire area. Any rational person would see that as improper, especially if there was not a very good justification for it (and I’ve had areas show up in those scans that were simply where the fabric was wrinkled and a bit clumped, so no the scan alone doesn’t prove anything). I can tell you who sounds like the one more “out of her mind” to me (or at least less interested in basic human liberties and the right not to be sexually violated)...
It’s not a sexual violation. If one had ever been sexually violated, then you’d know this is not what’s happening.