A race can’t co-opt a word. Either everyone can use it or no one can.
If a double standard doesn’t work for races or genders then neither do words they can use.
If blacks don’t want whitey to use the N word then they better stop using it. If not; don’t be surprised, hurt, offended, or anything else. Good for the good; good for the gander.
Should be good for the goose; good for the gander.
Wouldn’t it be nice if we could correct our posts; even if there was a 5 min time limit.