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Dating in the Age of Intersectional Feminism: Knowing When to Run
Victory Girls Blog ^ | 12/12/17 | Marta Hernandez

Posted on 12/12/2017 12:59:38 PM PST by x1stcav

Imagine you’re a single guy. You meet a woman who appears to be sane and nice. She’s not sporting the signature rainbow hair, “statement” glasses, and hallmark sour, judgmental scowl that seems to be endemic to crazy third-wave feminists (but I repeat myself) today, and you decide to meet for a first date.

You gallantly hold the door open for her, and pull out her chair, because, you know, respect.

She twists her lips into an acerbic scowl, but says nothing. You figure maybe she got a splinter from the chair, or maybe she has indigestion or something, so you sit across from her and begin to chat. After all, that’s what first dates are about, right? Getting to know one another.

You: So tell me what you’re looking for in a guy.

Her: You’re assuming I date men exclusively. That’s quite the assumption to make. I’m gender fluid, and I do not discriminate based on the gender of my prospective mates.

You (nonplussed): Uh… I apologize. I didn’t mean to assume anything. I just meant to ask what kind of people you’re attracted to.

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To: Jim 0216

“I’m afraid to ask - what kind of creature is an “Intersectional Feminist”?”

They differ wildly from the ‘intrasectional’ variety which is easily distinguishable from the ‘sectional’ variety. All three are usually found among females (sic) between the ages of ... to ... As you can understand there is a great need to be correct in how these females (sic) are described, lest one get caught up in an intercessional discussion from which there may be no easy exit ...


41 posted on 12/12/2017 1:51:43 PM PST by PIF (They came for me and mine ... now it is your turn ...)
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To: humblegunner; All

‘It’s a blog but you thought it was news.
I’m sorry for your special needs.’

humblegunner, go ahead, click on it, read it, and you’ll find its loaded with ‘news’.

Just trying to spread knowledge and enlightenment.

BTW, when’re you coming by for dinner? Tonight is sesame chicken and sticky rice. We eat early around here so plan to arrive by 1700.


42 posted on 12/12/2017 1:52:59 PM PST by x1stcav (We have the guns. Do we have the will?)
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To: robert14

My oldest son started college in Iowa in the last half of the 90s.

He called me one evening to say, thanks dad. I asked what for and he said for always teaching me to be polite, hold doors for women and in general be a gentleman. I said, okay, what’s the back story.

He said in his first week on campus he was acting just like that and he was having girls ask his room number because although they had a steady guy they wanted to bring their young roommate by to meet him as there seemed to be a complete lack of decent guys with basic character and courtesy. He said that after about the fifth time something similar to this happened he decided some of those youthful lessons merited acknowledgement.

I still laugh thinking of it over twenty years later.


43 posted on 12/12/2017 1:53:17 PM PST by KC Burke (If all the world is a stage, I would like to request my lighting be adjusted.)
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To: x1stcav

They forgot to mention that she probably drives a Subaru


44 posted on 12/12/2017 1:54:52 PM PST by Be Careful
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To: x1stcav

The pic of the woman in a corset reminded me of an old, hilarious Virginia Slims “you’ve come a long way, baby” cigarette ad. A man is helping his wife get into a too-tight corset by tightening its strings with a windlass. He’s cranking as hard as he can while she’s hanging onto two of the posts of their four poster bed. Then disaster strikes. The tension on the strings gets too high and she flies across the room, taking the two posts of the bed with her and collapsing the bed.


45 posted on 12/12/2017 2:05:27 PM PST by libstripper
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To: x1stcav
10 Things Every Intersectional Feminist Should Ask On a First Date

The writer:


46 posted on 12/12/2017 2:07:24 PM PST by Gamecock (The greatest threat to humanity is not "out there" but "in here" in the recesses of the soul. TK)
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To: T-Bird45

That was also during my time in college. What was “normal” back then would get you into major trouble now. How bad would the pc’s react to panty raids now? I knew many girls who were as aggressive as the guys. And it was not harassment then. Just everyday boy/girl interaction. It was fun while it lasted.


47 posted on 12/12/2017 2:08:53 PM PST by dwg2
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To: Road Warrior ‘04

“Man, oh, man! Am I glad I’m married! Dating in this day and age is like Russian roulette!”

“Tarantula sex” is a slightly more accurate term.


48 posted on 12/12/2017 2:13:28 PM PST by libstripper
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To: x1stcav

bump


49 posted on 12/12/2017 2:14:41 PM PST by timestax
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To: SVTCobra03

They didn’t act that way at OSU in 1992, either...


50 posted on 12/12/2017 2:15:46 PM PST by backwoods-engineer ( DJT won; we got Gorsuch and a bit of MAGA. Civil war before we get more?)
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To: robert14

I have never in my life been abused or scorned by a woman for whom I’ve held a door or performed a similar small courtesy.


51 posted on 12/12/2017 2:38:31 PM PST by Romulus
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To: caligatrux

Hehe...I hear that.


52 posted on 12/12/2017 2:41:31 PM PST by daviscupper (Getting punched again and again.)
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To: caligatrux
"I’m gender fluid"

Sounds like needing an oil change...

53 posted on 12/12/2017 2:48:38 PM PST by OrangeHoof (Let Trump Be Trump. Would you rather have Hillary?)
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To: Angels27
I gotta get out of this state.

You sure do and not because of the womyn.

54 posted on 12/12/2017 2:53:56 PM PST by OrangeHoof (Let Trump Be Trump. Would you rather have Hillary?)
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To: Jim 0216

Wackos like male feminist Matt McGorry.


55 posted on 12/12/2017 2:55:02 PM PST by GuavaCheesePuff
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To: Dilbert San Diego

You never count your money

While you’re sittin’ at the table...

(more advice - lol)


56 posted on 12/12/2017 2:56:20 PM PST by OrangeHoof (Let Trump Be Trump. Would you rather have Hillary?)
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To: Road Warrior ‘04
Man, oh, man! Am I glad I’m married! Dating in this day and age is like Russian roulette!

...with five bullets!

57 posted on 12/12/2017 2:58:18 PM PST by OrangeHoof (Let Trump Be Trump. Would you rather have Hillary?)
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To: Romulus

Move to Boston.

You’ll see it all the time. Just has it happen again last Friday. Waiting for the trolley standing next to a woman and with a smile and gesture said ‘ After you ‘.

Her response was a pinched face look of distaste and a ‘ No! ‘

I didn’t even bother getting into it with her.

I’ve been yelled at by women on the train when offering them my seat.

It goes on all the damned time.


58 posted on 12/12/2017 3:03:11 PM PST by warsaw44
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To: Romulus

- almost forgot about this one: woman screaming ‘ assault! Get your hands off me ! ‘ after I grabbed her from falling out of the train when the doors opened.

She’s leaning against one of the doors and when the trolley stopped, doors open and she starts to fall right out the door.

I grabbed her with both hands and pulled her in otherwise she would have gone backwards onto the station platform. A fairly steep fall.

Unreal. I was all of 23 or so. Never again - never.


59 posted on 12/12/2017 3:09:57 PM PST by warsaw44
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To: x1stcav

This is akin to that scene in a teenage slasher flick where one or more characters goes to the basement door. You know better, the entire audience knows better yet the doomed character, just like an Original Star Trek ‘Red Shirt’, still does it and suffers their fate.

Dating anyone, of whatever 27 genders, who starts the date like that, is encountering a state of “Danger, Danger Will Robinson!” Cut it short, try not to get too many bruises, be gentle but firm in the exit and lock your door!


60 posted on 12/12/2017 3:15:00 PM PST by SES1066 (Happiness is a depressed Washington, DC housing market!)
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