Have you tried attending a church which believes in the Bible and Jesus as Lord? You might be surprised there may be some sane women left there.
I attend a church. Its very small (about 50 people). No singles here in my age group. It took me long while to find this church that sticks with Bible. Most churches in CA embrace some form of progressivism these days.
The way I see it, if God has someone for me, he will make sure we meet!