To those men wanting to marry, listen up.
As soon as you get married you are already in debt you just don’t know it yet. You are better off buying her a house a car and jewelry BEFORE you get married. Then have her kick you in the nuts for an hour. That’s what happens in the divorce. Might as well get it over with because most of the time that’s how it ends.
I never had kids but I know plenty of men who have literally been raped financially by the courts.
If I ever even think of getting married again, I’m just going to find some woman who hates my guts and buy that biotch a house!
Married a native of Central Mexico many years ago (many) and love her dearly. She is NOT a liberal, leftist, feminazi and is a wonderful woman. What I saw of American women in college even back then made me sick. What I see now makes me a raving lunatic if I'm around them for very long.
I actually got divorced yesterday after 24+ years of marriage and three kids. I got the kids, kept my money, and 90% of the assets (and debts unfortunately) in Texas, a community property state. She just wanted out. Wasn’t even interested in counseling. Moved up to Ohio to live with another dude. I was separated since January. Have dated a few women here who turned out to be either drunks, crazy, or not monogamous... slim pickings. Thought about the Asian lady, easy to get really - but you really have to be careful there. Many will say anything you want to hear to get that green card.
At this point, I don’t think I want to be married again. Relationship, yes. Marriage.... I kind of lost faith in the institution.
At court yesterday, it was packed, with people going up to the judge and in less than a minute each, were divorced. I saw one couple across from me. The guy had red puffy eyes from crying. His name was called and he and his very soon to be ex went up there, raised their hands, and BAM... divorced. She walked back ahead of him, clearly crying. They sat back down and hugged, both crying. I wanted to stand up and yell at them “Why?!?!?!”
I was there alone. Went up there and BAM.... less than one minute later, the judge says “Good luck sir, your marriage is dissolved.”
Just like that.