It’s women who have become unmarriageable, men are just responding to that. Meaning no disrespect to men who have found wonderful women and have great marriages, the vast majority of young women in the U.S. today are self absorbed and are far too risky to trust your life to. The illegitimate birth rate is now 40% in the U.S. which means a huge number have eliminated themselves from being marriage material right there, and most of the rest of them aren’t any less promiscuous, they’re just better at using birth control. A man who ties himself to one of these women is risking everything he’s ever done with his life, I’ve seen too many successful men have their financial lives destroyed because their wives decided they wanted to play and the courts decimated the men to fund the wife’s new lifestyle.
I’m 51 and divorced my cheating wife 5 years ago. I was one of the lucky few that didn’t get raped by the divorce court but it could easily have gone much differently. A middle aged single guy with a pulse and a good job will have women chasing him like you wouldn’t believe, I was shocked how the dating scene changed since my 20’s when I had to do the chasing. I have no intention of getting remarried, it’s just doesn’t offer any advantages for a man in the current culture and legal atmosphere of the U.S.
Very true, but the men have horrific issues as well. The deterioration of values is THE issue. No values. We are headed for destruction, but the vast majority of people simply can not see it coming.
Oh, but companionship! Companionship! , the men married 30+ years here will retort. They just don’t understand how dangerous their situation is. Even the ones married in a different era.