ok advice forthcoming because you asked:
with leftist identity politics first, as many ancient philosophers espoused, first study and know your enemy, his/her methods. “Rules for Radicals.” Alinsky is a good start. devise your actions or inaction based on the enemies’ weaknesses/strengths. (sounds like your doing a full frontal, berserker style (lone man) attack which is usually the last resort).
second, enlist allies on your side who fit the identity to attack the enemy directly.
for example, our best defense/attack against the left’s accusations of black/feminist racism, come from conservatives who on the surface fit the identity that the left is supposedly defending. So here, our best defense/attacks relative to the left are coming from people like Candace Owens and Kanye West.
so you need to find conservative women who are willing to stand with you in your fight against radical leftist feminism. even a lady lawyer might help your case, for instance.
hope that helps. and may God bless you and yours in the land of Oz.
thank you