My brother in law is gay. He is really a good guy. He has been extremely successful in banking and investing. He is very low key. He does not hide his sexuality nor does he flaunt it in your face. If you asked him, “are you gay” he would say yes and try to change the subject. He just wants to fit into society with no problems. He has done this. Oddly he is six feet 2 inches tall and looked like Adonis when he was young. Girls followed him around like puppy dogs. We laughed about this together. He missed a hell of an opportunity, we laughed about this also.
He is my friend. He is a good guy and a valued member of society.
The problem is the LGBTQ+ grouping. It covers everyone from people like your brother-in-law to the most vile freaks. Effort needs to be made to peel off the worst of the worst. I know there are gays who don’t like being associated with transgenders, so kicking the “T” out of there might be the place to start. But how to do it?
Of course he is. It’s sad you feel like you need to advocate for him.
This is about something else all together. I hope you know that.
You need to know that God condemns homosexuality and many have been saved from the clutches of this pernicious sin....God doesn’t condemn people for who they are outside of the broad category that we all are sinners because we were all born in sin. He condemns people for what they do that makes them who they are.
I have two lesbians across the street. They’ve been in a committed relationship for 25 years. They raised two daughters and have two grandchildren. They’re very nice people and excellent neighbors.
We watch each other’s houses when we are away. We have cocktails together on occasion. Like your brother in law they’re also low key. As neighbors go I’d take another dozen just like them in a heartbeat.
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Hmmm, if he is gay, how did he get to be your BIL?
My niece is gay, stunningly beautiful, a surgical RN, has been a lefty all of her adult life, fifty years. She is still gay, but has become quite the conservative and regrets allowing her sexuality to determine her politics.