Both my wife and myself had it December 2019 before the hype. Hobe Sound FL
My wife, adult kid, and our kid's friend who was visiting from the Silicon Valley area (who also had traveled to the Phoenix area for business) all had it in late December 2019. The visitor, a 30 year-old male with no co-morbidities, spent all three days of the visit lying on the couch in our kid's apartment. I had a pretty high fever overnight, so there's a good chance I had it too. Unlike the others, I didn't have lingering symptoms lasting a few weeks. Central Texas.
I am pretty sure my mom had it in Dec 2019 and my dad Jan 2020.
I’m the same boat as you. In early December 2019 I had a terrible cold that lasted a week followed by a week of being very lethargic. I’d be out breath going to the restroom.