Just have a living will and you can retire or live anywhere you want - It is each individuals resposibility to to make sure everything is in writing and all interested parties read it and sign that they will abide by the will.
"It is each individuals resposibility "
Individual responsibility?! NOOOOOOOOOO!!! I want the federal gov't to step in and solve my problems for me, as long as the gov't is led by Republicans!!!
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