My 13yo doesn't get on the computer. ,She has no idea how to open these interwebs much less make her own space. She ASKS me if she can do something on the computer. Then I am THERE. WATCHING HER.
She is outside playing, like 13yo are supposed to do. Not on the puter, talking to total strangers while I sleep on the couch.
Do you homeschool? If she's enrolled in a school outside the home, how does she do her homework? Every class mine have been in since 7th grade (and some earlier), they've had to use the computer to either do research or type their lessons.