WTF?
I don't care what "Dear Abby" says. This guy and your aunt prove that it is a choice. (Along with all the "lesbian till graduation" people.)
Are we related?
RE: “My aunt decided to go all dikey after raising 5 kids to adulthood in a very catholic household.”
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My relative, a nearly 40 year old female, left her husband and two kids, ages 14 and 12, for a dikey character — to the shock and horror of the family. The dumped husband was especially upset since his own mother had left the family years ago for another — at least she chose a MAN to leave for.
The two kids in this new scenario are devastated — and are both girls — imagine being 12 and 14 year old girls and having your mom ‘switch teams!’
The kicker is that mother of the team=-switcher, herself one of the original San Francisco hippies and her old hippie husband, are NOT taking this well, NOT open minded, and are in total denial that their daughter could be gay. Really amazing...........