Hubby passed away 20 years ago, I had one date a year later and decided it wasn't for me. I just didn't return his call that my answering machine caught..nice enought guy, but as you say, do what you want, when you want, clean house if it bothers you, wear your PJs until 5pm. Get up when you want, go to bed when you want, make meals when your hungry and not on schedule etc etc etc.
I had many good friends, travels with them etc. but alas, when you get into your 70's, they up and die on you...:O( I was the youngest...
With 5 kids and 13 grandkids, and lucky to love all my daughter in laws and my one son in law I am a happy camper...
Good for you Goat Granny!
You do your thing and do it when you want!
Merry Christmas!