Yeah me...and it sucks!
My man and I split just a few days ago. This time I believe it is for real and forever. He has rented his own place and packed and carted off the last of his stuff yesterday.
I initiated the “crisis” and he acted on it...
In the long run, probably a good thing but, right now, it just feels empty and lonely sitting here at the computer, alone, on Christmas Eve.
Life is bad sometimes but if you have the right attitude (meaning believing in God and trusting Him) it always works out well in the long run.
For me when I have been alone, the thing has always been reaching out to other people. If you’re lonely on Christmas, somebody else you know is probably also lonely. Invite them to have a cup of hot chocolate with you and maybe set up your Nativity scene or put something on your tree.
If you love people, they will love you back. And sometimes you have to be the one who starts it. Don’t think of yourself as losing out; think of yourself as being available now to welcome others. God is good.