You are right about one thing STF away from Marriage Counselors.
The one my son had told him to let his wife have some time alone. He gave it to her , she used it to screw half the neighborhood.
Another thing if you have kids save the dough you would pay a lawyer to pay the child support.Just throw your hands up and ask how much she wants. Whore or not she is going to win.
A few tears on the stand (acting at its finest) and a sypathetic judge and a guy has no chance at all. Since then male neighbors, friends and contractors have related the same experience with slightly different circumstances and the same outcome. It's a racket and definitely geared against fathers. I believe she'll have God as the ultimate judge for what she's done to her family.
I’m still on with my first wife and hope it will always be so, but I’ve learned from the experiences of friends that the most dangerous thing you can bring into a divorce court is a penis.