Coincidentally, I recently read this novel set about American marines in China, December 1941.
If the taking of the barracks occurred as related in the story, it is doubtful the bones ever left China.
Whatever happened, I doubt that they will ever be found.
The chinese had a habit of grinding bones for use as ‘medicine’.
I suggest that it is more likely that one of several million chinese did that, than one of a few hundreds of marines took it, AND survived WWII.