When you sin against someone.....
Convincing a women to murder their child falls into that category....
You need to seek that person forgiveness...
God will forgive you...confronting that sin by reconciliation to the individual you sinned against cleanes you soul of that burden...
Seeking forgiveness from the person you wronged sounds selfish.....or self oriented
You’re risking reupsetting someone you helped mess up so you can feel better?
That is for you to work out with God
Christian interpretation here is often different from my upbringing in south long ago
Its less stoic...odd to me
Not personal to anyone here