Every gay male i know admits to having been molested by an older male.
They often couch it in romantic terminology, but ultimately it’s revealed as homosexual pedophilic rape.
Grooming. Old as the Greeks. Likely since the dawn of ‘civilized’ man.
That’s my experience as well. Usually they were abused as children, and/or they had a very distant or negative relationship with their father.
Of course the APA can’t say it’s psychological since they caved decades ago to the militants.