You found no evidence that Terri’s family ever said anything hateful about Jeb, or anyone else for that matter.
In all their time defending Terri, and speaking out against what was happening to her, they never spoke ill of the people behind it.
Jeb helped Terri in 2003. Her family didn’t question his motives. They thanked him.
Their Christian faith probably has a lot to do with their tendency to speak positively about people, and direct their negative comments at events rather than the perpetrators of the events. It takes a lot of twisting to use that against Terri in defense of those who willingly failed her.
Where were you when Terri died? Why weren’t you breaking the law to save her. You failed her, too.