Posted on 01/04/2017 8:45:04 PM PST by Arthur McGowan
“If you are spanking your children, you have been too lazy to learn how to be a parent. “
I saw the exact opposite. Spare the rod spoil the child.
“When you are in a restaurant, and the waiter fails to bring what you ordered, you punch him, right? Or do you just slap him? After all, you have to get his attention, right?”
She’s not a two year old. She understands English and logic and reason and adult matters. Bad analogy.
“When you are in a restaurant, and the waiter fails to bring what you ordered, you punch him, right? Or do you just slap him? After all, you have to get his attention, right”
P.S. If the little idiot started acting like a two year old and throwing a temper tantrum he just might get punched in the face and he knows it. His spankings taught him that.
Oh, Yes. My Dad, too. We learned quickly that life was SO much easier if you just did what he told you to do the minute he told you to do it! ;)
I cannot STAND mouthy or disobedient kids. I watched an Aunt raise three of the most amazing brats you’d ever see. But then, one is now an FBI Agent, and the other two are in the trades. All are married with families and are hard-working taxpayers.
So, who knows? *SHRUG*
One thing that is interesting in this thread is the number of posts where it is assumed the spanking was done because the PARENT lost their temper, lost their patience or other wise beat their child while angry.
None of those applied when I spanked my kids. I did it only because it was my duty under the circumstances and as a father as I see them. I certainly didn’t enjoy it and always shook my head to myself because the little dickens insisted in getting the spanking in the first place by his/her actions.
Exactly. I can honestly say that neither of my parents EVER spanked Sis or me in anger.
Of course, when we were moody, impossible TEENAGERS, I’m sure they had their moments, LOL!
I’m gonna go call my Dad... :)
This isn't the religion forum.
I swatted a few butts——note I said swat,not beat.
How did you discipline your kids?
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No kids "need" it. It is what you choose to do as a parent. Just be clear on that.
Thanks for exposing his strawman ILLOGICAL argument.
If you go to the Title Page, it says "Welcome to Free Republic / Conservatives for God, Family and Country" -- I'm certain that Jim meant that to be in that specific order.
So it looks like you're the one who's lost. Go back to Democratic Underground where they have Safe Spaces and Cookies for those that can't handle the election results.
Ok, fine. They didn’t “need” the slap on the hand or soft butt swat but it helped keep them alive. One stopped dangerous behavior just from a stern voice. The other three didn’t.
No, I like The election results just fine, thanks .You’re the one who went completely off topic.
Take care, FRiend..... :)
Take care, FRiend..... :)
Children should absolutely be protected.
This a complicated debate and now I am exhausted... Waiting for my 17 year old daughter to come back from a party, now that she has her actual license.
Take care and Happy New Year, FRiend!
Exactly. Not necessary to beat a child up to make a point.
I can still remember my mother getting very mad when I was not able to get toilet trained.
She was a sad woman and she took out her anger at me my sister. When I came home from college one time, my father actually get mad at me. And he was upset at my sister. My sister was in the cross country team. And I told her to run like hell.
He was about to beat her up. She was a skinny 16year old. He was strong, about 6’3”... I later picked up my sister I knew she would run.
Where she would run.
If you watch the video, and then read the comments on this thread, you will see that Stefan predicts all the stupid comments people will make. They make utterly gratuitous assertions like, “The studies about Global Warming are rigged, so all the studies about spanking are rigged.”
The fundamental reason people make these stupid comments is that they fear examining the trauma they experienced. One of the ways they hide from the suffering and rage—and ALIENATION from their parents—they experienced as a child is beating their own children. “If I beat my children, that proves that my father and mother were right to beat me.”
Thanks
I was wondering how I would introduce THAT side of the argument.....<: <: <:
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