[ladyjane]

If you’re over the age of 30 it’s extremely hard to find a man who isn’t already drowning in child support payments.

Good grief. There are tons of good men out there. Good women too. It takes a bit of effort - and some luck - but they're out there.

[Bodleian_Girl]

I’m not saying they aren’t out there. But it’s hard to find one who isn’t up to his neck in child support.

[PapaBear3625]

Good grief. There are tons of good men out there. Good women too. It takes a bit of effort - and some luck - but they're out there.

Yes, there's lots of good men out there. But many women discover that the ones who are any improvement over the one she left, have little interest in a 40-something woman with kids.

The vow was "For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness or in health, Til death do us part".

The vow was not "Til I feel unhappy".