“The woman of your dreams is rarely the woman of your heart” - Celerity
I should write a book about me in High School. Born with deformities, it wasn’t “easy” to get a date. But instead, it made me skip all the BS and get to some damned answers before it was too late and I wound up a hermit.
I dated some beautiful girls. Of those, I found two who were actually worth my time and effort.
The keys are like the Dao. To understand the dao, you must learn it then unlearn it. “Nice guys” DO finish first. But you have to understand what a nice guy is.
I wasn’t ever a douche to these girls, but I wasn’t a pushover. I would meet their fathers and tell them exactly what I was about. I drove crummy cars. Even though my arms are deformed, I wore short sleeve shirts.
And I was never afraid to go to fisticuffs. Bullies were waiting for a guy like me around every corner. I fought every one of them with zeal.
Also, all problems with getting women are solved with motorcycles. It can be a $25,000 harley or a $250 70s sccrambler. Doesn’t matter. Riding a bike changes everything. You can be yourself.. but be yourself on a bike.
Most healthy, well-rounded people grow up and realize that their ‘first choice’ would have been a disaster..