Can’t...or won’t?
If they deliberately won't then telling them is pretty much a waste of time, don't you think?
http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/wtf/glamorous-philippinoaustralian-girlfriend-of-las-vegas-shooter-stephen-paddock/news-story/b6800b899f3ed0c97c8d133c0c82d8c1
Above puts Danley in Dubai last year to visit family.