The two that merged were 1.6 and 1.1 times as massive as our sun, but each was no wider than Washington, D.C”
Washington, D.C. is very dense.
Wash DC is a black hole sucking in our money.....
However, if one of these objects was less than 1.4 stellar masses, then it would be a white dwarf, not a neutron star at all. This is called the Chandrasekhar Limit. Still quite dense, but not on the order of a neutron star.
Please bear in mind that I'm not a rocket scientist nor do I play one on TV. $:-)