Her 15 minutes...
Oh, we can think of many reasons why you two would. Let's start with why you called the clown to be there when the call came in. It's the truth he knew what he signed up for. Unless the wife is saying he was a total dufuss. Is she saying that, huh, huh? Because she's not honoring him that's for sure. She's using his death for her 15 minutes, to slap down the "guy" who won over hellary and to get a shopping spree from her gofundme account.
When speaking in front of a group, I once paused on an unknown recently deceased person's name due to an emotional catch in my throat and someone thought I'd forgotten her name.