Im glad you set such high standards for yourself.
Here’s the question/issue: does Malia have any place to blow smoke rings where she won’t be recorded.
If not, then it’s wrong to post the video. We should assume she’d have preferred privacy but simply couldn’t find/get any.
If yes, then it’s okay to post and discuss the pics. Malia knows she is the subject of public attention. Anything she wants to do which she wants kept private, she should do in private.
i see 18 is age of majority in Massachusetts. malia is therefore an adult, it seems (!)