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How to avoid harassing women: Think like a romance novel
NY Post ^ | January 31, 2018 | Andie J. Christopher

Posted on 02/02/2018 5:19:34 AM PST by C19fan

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To: sciencewriter86

There are so many sub-genres of romance novel these days, you might find some you like. Especially if you like sci-fi and/or fantasy.


41 posted on 02/02/2018 7:20:47 AM PST by mewzilla
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To: C19fan

Romance novel: Girl sees boy. Boy ignores girl. Girl hates boy. Boy is nice anyway. They screw and have a lavish girlie dream wedding.


42 posted on 02/02/2018 7:22:43 AM PST by CodeToad (CWII is coming. Arm Up! They Are!)
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To: Tax-chick
Another useful generalization is, “Would you say this to her (or him) in front of her/his spouse and children?”

That's a great rule-of-thumb!

43 posted on 02/02/2018 7:23:12 AM PST by mewzilla
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To: C19fan

Aren’t they called “bodice rippers?”

Most women spend a lot of money on those clothes. Ripping them to expose the heaving bosom and assuage your rampant steed is probably not good policy when that top cost her $200. I guess it’s good that today’s ubiquitous workout clothes are pretty hard to rip.


44 posted on 02/02/2018 7:25:37 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: A_perfect_lady

I read a few from the 1970s by Kathleen Woodiwiss (”The Flame and the Flower”, etc.). All of the “heroes” forced themselves on the heroines repeatedly, beat or manhandled the heroines, and constantly made the heroines miserable and tearful through verbal abuse or flirting with some rival woman. But the heroine did end up loving the rogues and living happily ever after with them.

Very realistic (not).


45 posted on 02/02/2018 7:26:00 AM PST by Cecily
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To: BykrBayb

I bet even gay men read gay romance for the strong handsome masculine guys.


46 posted on 02/02/2018 7:26:15 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: GrandJediMasterYoda

What a mean and bitter old bitch Gloria Steinem has become.

My late wife subscribed to MS Magazine when it first came out. Gloria was a young and pretty woman back then.

She was also a former Playboy bunny. And she admitted she had an abortion. And even later admitted she let men who had things she wanted play inside her pantys.

Playboy bunny, man hater, feminist, all rolled into one really ugly package. And she ends up hanging out with women who are into Sharia law.

My wife let the MS Magazine subscription lapse because it was the women’s fantasy version of Playboy Magazine.

Steinem is stupid and payback is here already. May Allah have mercy on her soul.


47 posted on 02/02/2018 7:26:39 AM PST by sciencewriter86 (ma)
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To: mewzilla

I wrote to Edith and we became close friends. I built her a website and she would always send me her new books. I couldn’t tell her that they just weren’t up to her earlier ones. She actually dedicated one of her books to me! One of the parts of my website holds the memories of people I loved who are now gone. Edith is there.

http://www.iment.com/maida/friends/lostfriends.htm


48 posted on 02/02/2018 7:27:19 AM PST by mairdie
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To: mairdie

Yeh I don’t know which romance novels she’s reading but some of the ones I read are pretty dark Not the kind of guys you want to meet at the water cooler every morning. LOL!


49 posted on 02/02/2018 7:27:32 AM PST by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: mairdie

I head that 50 shades was about s&m and very poorly written. I’d be more likely to read racing forms all day than pick it up. I hate rape and s&m, not sexy at all, and more than that I hate poorly written dreck.


50 posted on 02/02/2018 7:28:33 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: Yaelle

From fandom I can guarantee you that a large number of women also read gay romance. Of those that did (many sociologists among them means endless questionaires and polls), 1/3 were happily married, 1/3 single, and 1/3 gay.


51 posted on 02/02/2018 7:29:24 AM PST by mairdie
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To: Jess Kitting

Romance: Behavior that men fake in pursuit of getting laid.


Sex: Behavior that women fake in pursuit of getting something from men.

Ugh, you guys are missing out on the best of life. In my experience sex (which is supposed to be pretty fun for both) precedes love and not always but it definitely hits men pretty hard. Yes. Men loving sex with women sometimes do end up in love. Sex is not an end in itself even for playas. Except Charlie Sheen but look at him.


52 posted on 02/02/2018 7:31:59 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: Georgia Girl 2

She’s a liberal, so she met a gentleman 20 years older who wrote to her praising her newspaper letter. She is truly a really good writer. She’s ecstatically happy, though still liberal. And feels no need to write ever again.


53 posted on 02/02/2018 7:32:03 AM PST by mairdie
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To: mairdie

I haven’t read a gay romance but I would, if it were about men. And well written. I really get the creeps from lesbian romance even with lesbian friends. I guess it’s like how straight men think two women together is sexier than when they picture two men going at it. It’s just how it is.


54 posted on 02/02/2018 7:34:07 AM PST by Yaelle
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To: Yaelle
When I read, and I read a lot, I have a rule: I always finish the book. Always.

50 Shades is the only time I have ever violated it.

55 posted on 02/02/2018 7:34:17 AM PST by mewzilla
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To: Yaelle

As I said, I haven’t read it and I wouldn’t read it. When I write fiction, I write adults making conscious choices. And NO nastiness. By the way, reading Trek fiction, most of the “harder” fiction came out of UK.


56 posted on 02/02/2018 7:34:42 AM PST by mairdie
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To: CodeToad

My former boss’s mom was a fan of “romance” novels
and he would always pick some up for her.
She told him, “Get the ones with RED covers, they
have more sex!”.


57 posted on 02/02/2018 7:34:55 AM PST by tet68 ( " We would not die in that man's company, that fears his fellowship to die with us...." Henry V.)
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To: BykrBayb

You’re right! I actually liked the movie, too, though I never quite got the fascination with Valentino. But the book was excellent.


58 posted on 02/02/2018 7:36:21 AM PST by mewzilla
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To: Yaelle

Agree completely.


59 posted on 02/02/2018 7:36:32 AM PST by mairdie
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To: CodeToad
[Romance novel: Girl sees boy. Boy ignores girl. Girl hates boy. Boy is nice anyway. They screw and have a lavish girlie dream wedding.]

A great summary of the average romance plot.

This level of romance writing is great escape literature, almost as much fun as super hero special forces guys who endure excruciating pain, kill myriads of our nation's enemies, ravish hot women, and are gallant to a fault. Somehow romance is funnier because it is often the most unreal.

60 posted on 02/02/2018 7:38:11 AM PST by sciencewriter86 (ma)
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