In my neck of the woods these...ahem... romances don’t end with marriages and children.
They tend to END marriages WITH children.
Which is why I think love has little to do with it.
You’re right, mewzilla. I’ve seen that happen many times. The last time, the mistress wrote a nice letter to the wife spelling everything out. I liked the guy it happened to and remember him crying over it. I’m not defending him but he was a nice person to me and a good employee.