Hyphenated last name males everywhere rejoice!
Some 35 years ago, my wife to be asked, as was then the fashion, if it was important to me that she take my name after marriage. I conversationally asked her if it was important that we get married.
She got my drift, although I might not have insisted to the point of separation, since there were some pre-existing professional certifications involved on her part. But it was the way I felt, and she knew it. It hasn't come up since.