You know what group are the most interested in marriage? Widowed and divorced men with full custody of 2-4 children.
The ones that just have to cough up a child support payment and babysit 2 weekends a month are on this thread sharing pathetic butthurt with each other. LOL!
And with both parties being old enough that there is no likelihood that the new marriage will result in additional kids (and thus child support obligations). If the new marriage ends, he still maintains full custody of his biological kids. It's an acceptable deal.
I could see this being a necessary condition for men regaining interest in marriage: that the husband gets 100% full custody of children born in the marriage. Child support, in current form, would be eliminated. If the kids are sufficiently young that it makes more sense to have them stay with mom, then HE could negotiate with her how much she would want in order for them to live with her.
Those Poor babies! lol
I posted a link to the usconservative , who called me a Snowflake...which shows 62% of females with custody do NOT get child support. 30% don’t want it, too much hassle, and 10% are ones with deadbeat dads. that leaves 22% who actually get what court ordered, sad!
Doesn’t it get uncomfortable pulling such gems out of your poop chute all the time?
papertyger keeps posting to me, trying to get me to respond with a commen, and it makes me wonder
WHY a man who claims to be happy with a childhood sweetheart would even be bashing women here? If he has a positive experience, why not uplift women everywhere...interesting.
If writing child support checks and only spending a couples of weekends a month parenting was the preferable path, women would pursue it for themselves.