NO it is NOT a Snowflake response, when a JACKARSE CANNOT STOP SENDING YOU FEMALE BASHING! God does not intend for me to be degraded, when I have tried to understand both points of view on this thread. Then I read the outlandish BS ‘papertyger’ said to other women, it’s disgusting! What’s matter, you feel obligated to fight his battles, or you are just as demonic?
The men on this thread have NO RESPECT for women, and they wonder WHY women would leave them, take their money for support...which is for the children NOT HER! If she ever gets any child support at all! Not to mention a large percentage do not engage with the children at all, because their poor little feelings are hurt that they have to pay out some money....that’s a clue to what a lousy husband they were in the first place! I know too many women, who have been married to those jerks, and struggled to raise their children!
There is another side to this coin, MISTER, it is the fact that 62% of custodial women DO NOT GET CHILD SUPPORT, and 10% have to try and find the loser, file again and again for the DEADBEAT DAD to even be compelled to pay! About 30% of the women do NOT want his support, because of all hassle that comes with it! That leaves the in out of court group fighting over it.
Seriously, you guys are out of touch with reality, and pitiful! See link below for the statistics on that, since you want facts.
http://www.deltabravo.net/cms/plugins/content/content.php?content.282
What is done in court is never what is happening in real life. The ex (on either side) is too busy trying to hurt the other spouse, that the sad children are pawns in their stupid game! Reading the comments on this thread has shown me WHY those poor children are miserable. Each parent trashing the other, what a sad life for the kids! IT IS THE CHILDREN WHO GET HURT THE MOST IN DIVORCE.
What man puts his children through such a tumultuous childhood, whining about ‘son, don’t get married, it isn’t worth it!” God said ‘sex without marriage is sin, so you send you son to hell, because you are angry with your ex!. CHILDISH AND EVIL!
You want to join in saying I am same as a liberal woman, and calling me a snowflake, fine! Well, ‘in Jesus name’ I turn all of you over to Almighty God, and may he have mercy on your demonic souls!
Hebrews 10:31 31 “It is a dreadful thing to fall into the hands of the living God.”
WHO DO YOU THINK WANTED ME TO IGNORE HIM, AND NOW YOU WANT TO BE THE BULLY TOO!
Goodbye!
Not the case with all of the divorced dads I know. Then again, the divorced dads I know are all middle class and able to pay child support. How much of that figure is for women who don't get child support because the guy either does not have the income, or is more able to disappear than the average middle class guy is?
The actual figures from Census bureau report: Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2013 (Issued in 2016) :
About three-quarters (74.1 percent) of custodial parents who were due child support in 2013 received either full or partial payments and 45.6 percent received full payments
Custodial mothers were more likely to have never married (40.2 percent) than to have been divorced (30.8 percent), currently married (16.1 percent), separated (11.7 percent), or widowed (1.2 percent)
As is common with women, you only look until you find what you want.
It took me less than five minutes to dig out this little gem: ““About 70 percent of the debt is owed by men who earn $10,000 a year or less, or have no recorded wage earnings at all, according to the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement.”
So you see, there’s a big difference between “not getting child support” and not being “granted” child support.
Wow, a bit over-sensitive aren't you? I'm a bully for pointing out your response as being typical of a snowflake?
You're really trying hard to be an example of the kind of woman a real man doesn't want to marry, aren't you?