Naw. You’re just getting my take in a few posts. Give me a few pages and I’m sure you will find we are really not that far apart. After all, I re-married. :)
My comments come from my own experience as well as the experiences of many men I know personally as well as the stories of many men I don’t. It’s kinda funny how we can look back at segments of history and, with hindsight, see the lunacy in the laws of the day, but we seem to have a hard time doing it with the current world in which we live.
All we really have to do is abolish no-fault divorce or alter it thusly: If one wants a “no-fault” divorce, they can leave. Leave the spouse, the house, the kids, everything. Or they can stay.
That would drastically increase the “fairness” of the whole thing. Suddenly, “for better or worse and in sickness and in health” would have the teeth it used to have. Marriage is for life. At least, It’s supposed to be.