My ex threatened to call the cops the night SHE decided we were divorcing, and do it in front of my son. She Had a bruise from walking the dog and was prepared to lie and claim I did it. The last thing I needed was my Asperger's son seeing his father cuffed and hauled away. Cops here have a zero tolerance policy.
we older men should communicate these lessons to younger men.
choose the women you associate with wisely and be extremely clear headed that you can be thrown in jail and your life ruined just because she feels upset.
Ask around, most of us would be shocked at how many of our buddies have been convicted of domestic violence.